Don't miss a thing!
Subscribe to my mailing list and be the first to receive my blog containing mental health tips and insights, as well as free resources and tools for your mental health and wellbeing.
By subscribing, you consent to receiving emails from Endue Counselling Services.

The Guilt of Saying No: How I Overcame People-Pleasing and Found Freedom
For years, I struggled with people-pleasing—saying “yes” when I wanted to say “no,” fearing conflict, and seeking validation through self-sacrifice. Over time, this led to emotional exhaustion and resentment, making me realise that constantly prioritising others was costing me my own well-being.
In this blog, I explore the roots of people-pleasing, the emotional toll it takes, and the strategies I used to break free. From setting healthy boundaries to challenging negative thought patterns, I share my journey towards self-worth and balance. If you’ve ever felt trapped in this cycle, this post is for you.